Timestamp to this woman talking, she was pretty damn funny here, gotta hand it to her
My biggest takeaway from the doc is that I was surprised to see how big the domestic violence numbers were against men. I know one guy that was stabbed in the head with a screwdiver. I personally dated someone for years that was really abusive, it's lucky for me that I am so tall at 6'4" because she was a blackbelt that fought in karate tournaments like some cobra kai shit. it was a challenge to defend myself sometimes. one time I got so desperate i had to scare her into thinking i was gonna punch her just to get her to stop hitting me. never would have hit her though i am not a fighter like that, its not my nature. it'd have to be something life threatening to get me to engage in any sort of brutality. Clearly domestic violence is a lot worse if your partner is bigger than you!! I would have been SOL. But i was surprised at how big the numbers were for men.
I've also met more than half a dozen men IRL that have been raped ( by a man ) and when i say that some people have the inclination to point out that it's still a man doing the violence but thats totally not the point.
There was also this crazy ass story in the doc about a woman that raped a 16 year old boy, went to prison for raping him, and then when she got out of prison she sued him for child support and won!! What a world. For sure the court systems are brutal in cases involving kids, and women get custody like 90% of the time. my best friend went through an ugly divorce with a kid and man did they put him through the ringer. She would just make up lies like 'he lets our 2 year old play with his gun' and then my friend wouldn't be able to work anymore!!!! cause of that accusation and he needed his gun for work. and then when it's proven that it wasn't true and she was lying, zero penality for her purjury!! and she would just lie again and again so many different times and accusations she had the whole state wrapped around her finger it was insane for me as a bystander to witness and the ungodly amount of money it costs him to fight the accusations in court and of course she got custody, like it was even a possibility for it to go any other way.
No doubt divorces are shit and messy all around. im sure there's some bad stories on the other side of the aisle but this one was that i had to witness firsthand.
Anyway I didn't mean to go into a rant if anyone even read that lol just wanted to link it for this womans funny speech.
My biggest takeaway from the doc is that I was surprised to see how big the domestic violence numbers were against men. I know one guy that was stabbed in the head with a screwdiver. I personally dated someone for years that was really abusive, it's lucky for me that I am so tall at 6'4" because she was a blackbelt that fought in karate tournaments like some cobra kai shit. it was a challenge to defend myself sometimes. one time I got so desperate i had to scare her into thinking i was gonna punch her just to get her to stop hitting me. never would have hit her though i am not a fighter like that, its not my nature. it'd have to be something life threatening to get me to engage in any sort of brutality. Clearly domestic violence is a lot worse if your partner is bigger than you!! I would have been SOL. But i was surprised at how big the numbers were for men.
I've also met more than half a dozen men IRL that have been raped ( by a man ) and when i say that some people have the inclination to point out that it's still a man doing the violence but thats totally not the point.
There was also this crazy ass story in the doc about a woman that raped a 16 year old boy, went to prison for raping him, and then when she got out of prison she sued him for child support and won!! What a world. For sure the court systems are brutal in cases involving kids, and women get custody like 90% of the time. my best friend went through an ugly divorce with a kid and man did they put him through the ringer. She would just make up lies like 'he lets our 2 year old play with his gun' and then my friend wouldn't be able to work anymore!!!! cause of that accusation and he needed his gun for work. and then when it's proven that it wasn't true and she was lying, zero penality for her purjury!! and she would just lie again and again so many different times and accusations she had the whole state wrapped around her finger it was insane for me as a bystander to witness and the ungodly amount of money it costs him to fight the accusations in court and of course she got custody, like it was even a possibility for it to go any other way.
No doubt divorces are shit and messy all around. im sure there's some bad stories on the other side of the aisle but this one was that i had to witness firsthand.
Anyway I didn't mean to go into a rant if anyone even read that lol just wanted to link it for this womans funny speech.