ive got to interject here, i am a minister and i am not here to jduge or preach at you guys, being a christian is not doing things that quote unquote a christian is suppose to do, its about having a relationship with christ plain and simple, can have a relationship with him and cuss? yes can you have arelationship with him and drink? yes can you have a relationship with him and not always go to church? yes but let me say this anything taken to an extreme is wrong, drinking to an extreme bad, watching naked women to an extreme bad, going to church and over spiritualizing everything bad!!!, let put it this way anything that gets in your way of your personal relationship with christ is wrong and is a sin, anything that god has personally told you not to do is wrong and is a sin, god convicts you about drinking at all, and you dont is a sin, period. god convicts you about putting a naked woman in a movie and you do it, it is a sin, period, whatever it is from drinking to smoking to lieing to watching to much tv, cussing, whatever it is, if it gets in the way of your personal relationship wiht christ and god convicts about doing or not doing something it is a sin, period! i would love to talk to anyone further about this if you want to email me.