My point is that show biz is supposed to be fun, but I see all these toxic elements.
I haven't read the book but this comment alone is worth comment.
Show business by definition is business (big business) which is a different thing entirely from fun. Looking in from the outside at; the big money, the parties and awards, the public recognition, the few selected out-takes, the gossip, etc., it may appear to be fun, it may be sold to the public as fun and there are some fun aspects to the biz but show business is NOT "supposed to be fun" it's damn hard, high pressure, high stress work!
I take pride in what I do and how well I do it but the simple fact is that the vast majority of my time is taken up with general business issues and specific project issues such as; trying to sort out file management issues, dealing with contradictory requirements due to internal politics between the filmmakers themselves and/or between the filmmakers and ancillary personnel (distributors/PR/etc.), ridiculous deadlines and a range of other issues which are about as far from fun as it's possible to get! Of the time that's left, most of it is spent trying to make the un-presentable presentable, from which I do get some pleasure, and the tiny bit of time I get to be truly creative, which can never be fully enjoyed because really there is no time. I couldn't even begin to count the 16+ hour days I've done, must be getting on for 1,000, and my record is a 57 hour "day".
It sounds terrible, so why do I do it? ... I'm not sure exactly (!), a combination of; I don't want to do anything else, the challenge, obsession, I'm good at it and, for those rare times when I'm really, really having fun... which somehow makes even the dull, monotonous or soul destroying tasks seem not so bad, tasks which normal (non-obsessed) people would find intolerable.
Years ago, I was married to a top international classical music soloist. She tours the world, earns very good money, gets all the accolades and lives the life. I remember during an interview the journalist asking: "For many people you live the dream. What's it like achieving this dream and being a full-time classical music soloist?" Her answer was: "I wouldn't know because I'm not a full-time classical music soloist, I'm a full-time business woman whose product is classical music performance!". As a member of the public you don't get to see the reality of being a soloist because representing the true drudgery doesn't make for an interesting documentary or magazine article, you just get to see/read the edited highlights, without ever being told you're only being given the rare highlights. The reality for virtually all the members of this tiny exclusive club is that only a small percentage of the working day is available for practising, performing or in some way actually making music!
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