Hey, Brooksy! You definitely need a thick skin to make movies, no matter what the budget. Even James Cameron got shit for making PIRANHA 2: THE SPAWNING. It wasn't because he was a bad filmmaker, but that he lacked time and resources. It's a good thing he didn't give up, though!
Guerrilla movies, like the ones most of us make, are much, much cheaper and have an even bigger uphill battle. 95% of the people on IMDB have no clue about what it means to shoot a feature for 20 grand. That doesn't make them wrong, though. Just a bit harsh, sometimes. In fact, if you can get your score on IMDB up, with a significant number of responses, then you are indeed doing something right. I use IMDB reviews for many of the movies I'm thinking about seeing.
I've just been informed that EXILE is being awarded by The Las Vegas international film festival. Though sales are slow, something like that is really an esteem builder.
I've done this long enough that I have a lot of confidence. I was the ace of my film classes. As a college freshman, I was awarded "Best Director" over the upper classmen. At both universities I attended, professors would take me aside and ask if they could show my work to other classes. If anything, I was getting too cocky and nothing brings you back to earth faster than getting real life reviews for a movie that you thrust upon the public!
Somewhere between the accolades and a few bitter reviews is the truth.
I can show you good and bad reviews for most of my movies. Though the bad ones hurt, you need to look at them and wonder why they are bad. If there are enough of them, you can find a common thread and learn from it. It's all about getting better, isn't it? I know I could delegate a talented crew on a big production. But - can I make a great movie on a ultra-low budget???? I think I can, so I keep going, improving with each new project. As long as the will to learn and get better is there, I have no worries.
A tragedy would be making a bad movie and giving up, leaving that as your last impression. I had some old movie review books. When MAD MAX came out, the book said "Trashy, Brutal motorcycle flick with bad dubbing." Then,the ROAD WARRIOR came out. The next edition of the book praised MAD MAX, saying "Inpired predessesor to THE ROAD WARRIOR!" That got me thinking - you can actually change people's opinions on early work, if you follow up with something really good. 5 to 10 years from now will be a different perspective.