Not really.
Sundance, Toronto, Cannes are worth going to. Agreed. If you're good at marketing and networking, then you're probably right, in saying no need to pay anyone else to come. Otherwise, you may be better off bringing a publicist (or finding one who will be there)
+1 on the entertainment lawyer. If you get to be hot property, you'll be able to find an entertainment lawyer easy enough.
In regards to the single distributor offer, this is the main area where I disagree.
There are many factors to consider that (in my opinion) are more important than the up front payments, though these do depend on the situation for those involved and their goals. For instance Bankruptcy escape clause, minimum performance exit clauses, minimum marketing spend and expense caps. Distribution fee's and percentages is also something that should be a concern. If the film is of that high a quality, consider milestone minimum payment clauses. These are also other conditions like release date before so they don't simply tie up your film for 10k and let it sit there on a shelf.
The rights reverting back in 3 years virtually means that any deal that you get won't be a deal with a real distributor. No distributor in their right mind would agree to that if you're looking at a cinematic release. If you can find a distributor stupid enough to agree to that, all the power to you. Most DVD rights last 5 years, sometimes even longer. There is often a lead in time for cinematic release. Then there is time between theatrical and other windowed releases. 3 years is just unrealistic. If you want to know more about why, please let me know and we can discuss it. If you're talking straight to DVD and/or VOD, then maybe. I just don't think it's good advice.
The right to do individual sales. This may cause issues. It'd be something that I'd talk with them about but if selling DVD's on your website is something that you'd throw away a distribution deal over, then sure, feel free to keep it as a deal breaker.
In regards to the points. You get all the points anyway. So demanding a bucket full of points could only serve to dilute down your ownership with any unscrupulous distributor.
The thing to think about is what if it's a run away hit? Protecting yourself from the downside isn't going to change your life too much. Is $10k really going to set you up for life? Capitalizing yourself for the upside is where you should put the time and effort into. If you make a movie that turns out to earn $100mil at the box office, you don't want to be stuck with a deal where you got a $10k advance (carrot) with 70% distribution fee (stick) after expenses. You'd be much better off with a $0 up front with 35%/20%/40% for the windows.
Every movie is different though. Just something to think about. Just my opinion too, it doesn't mean I'm right.
If distributors are only offering points and no cash, send them out the door.
If the deal is right, suits your movie and your situation, I disagree.
Here's a situation. You've made a movie for $15k. A studio likes it, but doesn't know what to do with it. They offer you $325k to buy it outright. All rights worldwide, indefinite. What do you do?