Raynox makes some nice add on lenses:
http://raynox.co.jp/english/dcr/egindex.htm
Your T3i has a 58mm filter thread.
I've made a test video for mine: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCQvBberpK4
Regarding the current obsession over shallow DOF: beats me.
I really don't care.
I just like the way it looks
when I need it.
Haven't had much of a reason
not to utilize it when shooting my nature videos.
http://www.youtube.com/user/placesofnature/videos
Honestly, the best thing to do is simply grab your camera, tripod, lenses, filters, gear bag and go shoot for an hour (or two) at least every other week, in different lighting conditions, and for different subjects. Then edit what you shot.
Shane Hurlbut promotes an exercise where you find a location, shoot for ten minutes (I think you're supposed to stay pretty much in the same immediate location), then edit what you just shot into a one minute video.
I can't find either of the two examples I've seen, but it's a sensible exercise.
Largely, these help you get faster* with your equipment and allow you to explore different ways of looking at situations.
* Directors and DOPs dicking around with the equipment is one of the greatest buzzkills for actors waiting for you guys to figure out WTH you're doing.