When one travels and has a bad experience, one tends to
generalize. ussinners knows NYC well, he can tell the difference
between a NY transplant pretending to act like their version of a
New Yorker and a native. When people in NYC are rude to me, I have
no idea if they are native or transplants. I only see a rude
person.
I understand that anyone coming to LA who experiences several
“bad” things will come to the conclusion that most of the city’s
people are just like the jerks they encountered. A person
traveling to any city can have five great encounters with locals
and then only remember the two bad ones.
As someone who travels often, we both know that expectations can
color ones view, too. We hear things about a city; the good things
often don’t happen during our visit and we are hyper aware of the
bad things we’ve heard.
I saw ussinners’ post before he removed it. I didn’t think is was
mean spirited at all. It was an emotional reaction to a trip that
didn’t meet expectations. I’ve had terrible trips to NYC, to
Seattle, to Dubai, to Austin, to Key West. I’ve had amazing trips
to all of those cities.
When one lives in a city one cannot dwell on the negative; you
will implode. When one visits, one has the luxury of dwelling on
the bad things. Los Angeles is an amazing place to live and work.
NYC is an amazing place to live and work. I’ve done both. If I
wanted to make my living in theater (which I did for several
years) I would live and work in NYC. Despite lists, surveys and
opinions, LA is a great place for independent film. I know it’s
not listed as number one on any list, but no list dictates where I
live and work.
I wonder if Boxing Filmmaker has moved here yet. He hasn't posted
in about a month. Maybe making the big move?