For a Canon XH-A1, what is the strongest ND Filter you can get for it, and which brands are the best? I know absolutely nothing about filters. 
I'm not even really sure if I need the strongest one, or if I'll have to stack them, I don't really know how effective 72mm ND filters are at blocking out the light.
I want to be able to open up the iris as much as I can, use the lowest f-stop the camera offers (get the best shallow DoF I can get from the camera naturally) while still lighting the scene with about 1000-1500 watts of 3-point lighting on my actors. (500w halogen key, 250w fills, scoop light highlights)

I'm not even really sure if I need the strongest one, or if I'll have to stack them, I don't really know how effective 72mm ND filters are at blocking out the light.
I want to be able to open up the iris as much as I can, use the lowest f-stop the camera offers (get the best shallow DoF I can get from the camera naturally) while still lighting the scene with about 1000-1500 watts of 3-point lighting on my actors. (500w halogen key, 250w fills, scoop light highlights)