I have been thinking more about relationships with women and directors, the idea of the muse and so fourth. I have realised that the attraction is not about power, well it is, but not all the time. It also, alot of the time is about women falling in love with the (directors) work, rather than the actual person... is this bad? what do u guys think? And don't start banging on about love grows in time, because it sometimes never does.... but anyway, then we are going to have to start defining love if we go down this path, and i dont care who u are because no one has been able to do that! I watched this Ken Russel film called Delius. A bio-pic about the classical composer Delius. I remember what he said.... "It is best to find a girl who loves you for your work".... and after seeing that film I have realised that ones work does not always reflect the personality of its creator.