I don't want a CAREER in film. I just want to make films because I like that. No point in turning an enjoyable hobby into a stressful job.
You are confusing people, you say the above but you also say:
The old plan:
Step 1: make movies with no money
Step 2: somehow get investors to make a proper movie
step 3: If the movie is successful, move to step 4. If not return to step 1.
step 4: Hollywood!!
The former is contradicting the latter.
Hence some people are getting annoyed.
Anyway, you have lots of good advice from ITers.