Ever get down and bummed out? I love film making and the other video work I do but after the last two films I directed got some bad comments and such im feeling bummed and searching for the will to work on three other projects I was about to start pre-production.. Any other directors find it hard to stay motivated some times? How do you cope with bad reviews and comments?
Staying motivated
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I left the industry for 5 years after a particulaly nasty expereince with Miramax and on a directing gig I did. It took a lot for me to get back in after being jaded for so long. Then we made a film which got good reviews and the occasional bad one. We started on the follow up, money fell through. Then this happened again and again. The ammount of shit that has been thrown on me over the past two year sI feel like a cow's field.
BUT and the key thing is this. It's want I want to do and what I love doing. And if you love it no matter what people say you should stay commited and dedicated.
Strive to get these people who hated your last films to do a good review of your next. and if they don't? Fuck em. Most film reviewers wouldn't know a good, marketable film if it bit them on the arse.
EVERY film maker gets bad reviews and mostly at the beginning of their career. Kevin smith was slated for most of his early films but he still does them because people still like watching them and if you have an audience and people who want to watch them then that my friend is better than a 100 good reviews.
This industry is over competative, filled with talentless hacks and arseholes who want to put you down. And mostly it's because they are afraid of who is coming through, who could replace them.
As for coping with bad reviews... balance them with the good reviews. Every good review is worth 10 bad in my book. But never expect to be wildly acclaimed as this doesnt ever happen even at the top. Use this to build your resolve, your confidance because if you ever get to the 'Wood you can be sure that bad reviews will be 10 to the dozen.
BUT and the key thing is this. It's want I want to do and what I love doing. And if you love it no matter what people say you should stay commited and dedicated.
Strive to get these people who hated your last films to do a good review of your next. and if they don't? Fuck em. Most film reviewers wouldn't know a good, marketable film if it bit them on the arse.
EVERY film maker gets bad reviews and mostly at the beginning of their career. Kevin smith was slated for most of his early films but he still does them because people still like watching them and if you have an audience and people who want to watch them then that my friend is better than a 100 good reviews.
This industry is over competative, filled with talentless hacks and arseholes who want to put you down. And mostly it's because they are afraid of who is coming through, who could replace them.
As for coping with bad reviews... balance them with the good reviews. Every good review is worth 10 bad in my book. But never expect to be wildly acclaimed as this doesnt ever happen even at the top. Use this to build your resolve, your confidance because if you ever get to the 'Wood you can be sure that bad reviews will be 10 to the dozen.
I almost quit the business about nine months ago, after ten years of working at it.
What kept me in was although I could imagine giving up production, I couldn't imagine giving up writing. That and the support of some good friends.
The thing I got from that experience was an understanding that film making is a life long learning process and when things don't turn out great you have to:
a) get back in the saddle and
b) learn from your mistakes
Of these two I think the second one is the hardest, because it means we have to take the criticism seriously and not just write off the critics as bitter and twisted hacks. Which is always more fun and easier.
I see lots of indies who can get back in the saddle, but very few who can take criticism and then do something about learning how to improve. In fact I can think of one guy in particular whose last film got slated pretty much everywhere, but he's never going to admit to himself or anyone else that it was less than brilliant (it's an ego thing - bless)
So I think the trick is to see the criticism as the best gift anyone could give you -- because by telling you what they didn't like, they're helping you become a better film maker.
I can in all honesty say that my last film's failure to do any business, which bankrupted me in the process, has been the best thing that ever could have happened to me as a film maker -- I'm a better writer and a more open minded producer/director than I ever would have been if it had gone huge.
(Phil -- we must have posted within seconds of each other -- I hadn't read your post -- and mine isn't a response to it -- just a weird coincidence that it looks like I did!)
What kept me in was although I could imagine giving up production, I couldn't imagine giving up writing. That and the support of some good friends.
The thing I got from that experience was an understanding that film making is a life long learning process and when things don't turn out great you have to:
a) get back in the saddle and
b) learn from your mistakes
Of these two I think the second one is the hardest, because it means we have to take the criticism seriously and not just write off the critics as bitter and twisted hacks. Which is always more fun and easier.
I see lots of indies who can get back in the saddle, but very few who can take criticism and then do something about learning how to improve. In fact I can think of one guy in particular whose last film got slated pretty much everywhere, but he's never going to admit to himself or anyone else that it was less than brilliant (it's an ego thing - bless)
So I think the trick is to see the criticism as the best gift anyone could give you -- because by telling you what they didn't like, they're helping you become a better film maker.
I can in all honesty say that my last film's failure to do any business, which bankrupted me in the process, has been the best thing that ever could have happened to me as a film maker -- I'm a better writer and a more open minded producer/director than I ever would have been if it had gone huge.
(Phil -- we must have posted within seconds of each other -- I hadn't read your post -- and mine isn't a response to it -- just a weird coincidence that it looks like I did!)
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I have three great loves in my life:
Even though I'm in treatment, I still find a few minutes to pull out a camera and shoot a scene on the fly. Even though I don't want to, I push myself because it's something I've always wanted to do. I have to push myself otherwise I'd never get the interest again. And, while shooting a scene, I get the 'filmmaking bug' again and film like crazy.
We all get bummed out once in a while, but if you allow yourself to fail, you will fail. I won't allow myself to fail.
- My children
- Filmmaking
- Chess
Even though I'm in treatment, I still find a few minutes to pull out a camera and shoot a scene on the fly. Even though I don't want to, I push myself because it's something I've always wanted to do. I have to push myself otherwise I'd never get the interest again. And, while shooting a scene, I get the 'filmmaking bug' again and film like crazy.
We all get bummed out once in a while, but if you allow yourself to fail, you will fail. I won't allow myself to fail.
Thanks for the responces.. That helps.... I need to foucs and make the best out of the reviews, I will learn from them.
When you're on set making a scene happen, all the reviews become irrelevant as the rush of making all of that stuff click takes over. All the pre production is preparation for that moment...The post is wanting to share that elation...
lather...rinse...repeat...
Never let others tell you what you can and cannot do (which is what becoming despondant over bad reviews boils down to). Take control and do what you do. Learn from your mistakes and know that every production will be rife with them. The only reason to be depressed about it is if you don't learn from your mistakes.
lather...rinse...repeat...
Never let others tell you what you can and cannot do (which is what becoming despondant over bad reviews boils down to). Take control and do what you do. Learn from your mistakes and know that every production will be rife with them. The only reason to be depressed about it is if you don't learn from your mistakes.
Loud Orange Cat said:
I must play you sometime. I'm not amazing, but it is the best game ever concieved. Aside from playing Jenga on a moving train, of course (to which I am master).
But Grinchy, if you get bummed out, don't worry. It happens all the time. Everything changes though. You have to be patient with yourself, and do things a little at a time. I'm going through some financial trouble now (AKA I got fired by the biggest A-hole boss ever), but I'm still taking time out of the job search to mess up my 1st draft. Last night, I had a stark revalation that although the script was GOOD, it wasn't GREAT. And though I have LITTLE money and LOTS of debt, it's not NO money and INSURMOUNTABLE debt. The fact I'm still able to have cable internet is something that inspires me to believe in destiny. But whatever you want to believe, in the end, things work out if you treat them kindly. Send your worst critics polite invitations to see your next film, and show them you've improved. If they give you a harsh review, send them polite thank you letters. Then make another film, and write them again. By that time, they'll be so impressed you're still plugging away, I'd bet they'd give you a better review just because. Eventually you'll win them over- if you can keep on plugging.
Where the hell did that come from? Keep on plugging? Has anyone heard anyone say that before? Oh my. I have to go do the dishes or something.... plug on.
Congratulations on having completed the projects you've done. Keep in mind that an artist needs to have enough sensitivity and awareness of the world around him to pull something truthful from life into his work. On the other hand, a working artist has to toughen himself up enough to be able to take the hard knocks that life sometimes dishes out.
Listen to other people's opinions, but you don't have to hold their opinions as gospel. Some folks think they are in a zero sum world, where anything positive they give out will subtract from what's left for themselves, so of course they'll run you down. Ignore them, they're naysayers. Others can recognise your state of artistic growth and can guide you to the next level of excellence, if you'll listen and pay attention. You need to be able to learn the difference between a constructive comment and a slam, and respond appropriately.
Listen to other people's opinions, but you don't have to hold their opinions as gospel. Some folks think they are in a zero sum world, where anything positive they give out will subtract from what's left for themselves, so of course they'll run you down. Ignore them, they're naysayers. Others can recognise your state of artistic growth and can guide you to the next level of excellence, if you'll listen and pay attention. You need to be able to learn the difference between a constructive comment and a slam, and respond appropriately.
Defiantly learn from the reviews but don't take them personally. Anybody who cares will critique your film making and not you the person. A review or critique that attacks you as a person instead of you the film maker can just get thrown in the trash were it belongs.
Having a cabel of trusted friends who'll give it to you straight are worth their weight in gold IMHO.
Having a cabel of trusted friends who'll give it to you straight are worth their weight in gold IMHO.
And remember most people who cut you down or hate what you do have probably never made a film in their life.
I couldn't agree more. Film reviewers should be filmmakers to level the playing field.mr-modern-life said:
Think back to the process of creating your film. Did you go through all that love and sweat thinking 'Man, this is going to show Mr. So and So Reviewer how great we are!' I doubt that's what got you up in the morning to work on it. You stepped up to the plate and did the work because you loved doing the work. You loved being with fellow artists, creating something... anything... together. That's good, will always be good, no matter what anyone else says about what you did.
Personally, I'd rather not have film makers as reviewers -- simply because what I want from a reviewer is a layman's reaction -- I don't want someone who is going to be looking for what I achieved technically, I want someone who can watch it as a film and say whether they liked it or not.
I think film makers are the worst reviewers -- because they lose the ability to see the film purely as a piece of entertainment -- I know that's true of me -- I saw a friend's film recently and it was a great piece of work -- but, the only thing that stuck in my mind was one technical fault that for me made the whole thing painful to watch. -- Truth is that no-one else spotted it.
As film makers we sometimes loose touch with the audience and reviewers are supposed to bridge that gap for us -- they're supposed to tell us the things that no one at our premieres will say to our faces.
Maybe... but then I review films and make them and for the most part I will enjoy any film to any genre by any director or star, low and high brow. I make films for an audiance then watch films as that audience. I think it can work...
....well, the thing is that you have to know that there may always be someone who will find fault with anything you do. How much stock are you going to put in what they say? There is criticism and then there is constructive criticism. Both are valid, but one holds more to personal taste and ultimately any movie out there is subject to that. constructive can help you improve and that is more important to the process of what you are doing.
You have to know what you are in this for. Everyone in this field wants to be able to make a living at it. You have to know that you love what you are doing and that you want to do this more than anything else. Then it is easier, relatively speaking, to walk off a bad review (maybe).
I have yet to really get any reviews of my work since I am just beginning to submit little things, but I do hope that if I get some not so great reviews, that I can remember how much I love doing this. I can always try to get better. I love the process even if it is cold outside or too hot outside and I'm schlepping my equipment around. I remember how much I like seeing something take shape when I edit. I like thinging about what I could try to do next. That's what keeps me motivated.
So, make sure you look at just what it is that you love about this film stuff and hold on to that. This is what will keep you motivated. Who cares about one bad review. Maybe he just doesn't get it. And isn't that the battle cry of every artist
-- spinner
You have to know what you are in this for. Everyone in this field wants to be able to make a living at it. You have to know that you love what you are doing and that you want to do this more than anything else. Then it is easier, relatively speaking, to walk off a bad review (maybe).
I have yet to really get any reviews of my work since I am just beginning to submit little things, but I do hope that if I get some not so great reviews, that I can remember how much I love doing this. I can always try to get better. I love the process even if it is cold outside or too hot outside and I'm schlepping my equipment around. I remember how much I like seeing something take shape when I edit. I like thinging about what I could try to do next. That's what keeps me motivated.
So, make sure you look at just what it is that you love about this film stuff and hold on to that. This is what will keep you motivated. Who cares about one bad review. Maybe he just doesn't get it. And isn't that the battle cry of every artist
-- spinner
The problem with "They just didn't get it" is that 99% of the time that's just a cop out by film makers who won't except that their work isn't good enough, YET. And never will be if they don't learn from their mistakes.
The indie film industry should be tearing Hollywood apart right now -- we have everything going for us -- dirt cheap production costs, without major loss of production values -- dirt cheap post production -- massively effective, virtually free marketing tools -- and finally the very real prospect of direct to the customer sales.
With all those is our favour then why hasn't the indie scene exploded? Why are indie films not having the same kind of break throughs that indie musicians are making every day?
Well, it's very simple -- our products just aren't good enough yet -- and the reason why -- well, because every time someone criticizes our work we get defensive and disregard their opinions.
So, we send our scripts for someone to read -- they give notes -- we ignore the notes and slag off the person we sent the script to. -- So, we get a bad review -- we decide that the reviewer is an idiot. -- Somebody walks out of our movie "They're a moron" -- people don't like the story "Well, it's all subjective" -- but the truth is that it isn't that subjective -- a movie that stinks is just that, a movie that stinks.
It's just easier to carry on being naff than it is to do something about it. Which is a pity really, because if we would just accept that it takes experience and skill to write a good script, to shoot a good movie, then we'd not see it as negative when we get it wrong the first dozen times out.
It used to be call paying your dues -- problem is that hardly anyone seems to be up for that these days.
The indie film industry should be tearing Hollywood apart right now -- we have everything going for us -- dirt cheap production costs, without major loss of production values -- dirt cheap post production -- massively effective, virtually free marketing tools -- and finally the very real prospect of direct to the customer sales.
With all those is our favour then why hasn't the indie scene exploded? Why are indie films not having the same kind of break throughs that indie musicians are making every day?
Well, it's very simple -- our products just aren't good enough yet -- and the reason why -- well, because every time someone criticizes our work we get defensive and disregard their opinions.
So, we send our scripts for someone to read -- they give notes -- we ignore the notes and slag off the person we sent the script to. -- So, we get a bad review -- we decide that the reviewer is an idiot. -- Somebody walks out of our movie "They're a moron" -- people don't like the story "Well, it's all subjective" -- but the truth is that it isn't that subjective -- a movie that stinks is just that, a movie that stinks.
It's just easier to carry on being naff than it is to do something about it. Which is a pity really, because if we would just accept that it takes experience and skill to write a good script, to shoot a good movie, then we'd not see it as negative when we get it wrong the first dozen times out.
It used to be call paying your dues -- problem is that hardly anyone seems to be up for that these days.
clive said:
....uh, I was kidding here, didn't mean to send anyone off on a rant
...well, of course that's the problem. Anyone who wants to can buy a little handicam, get some friends from h.s. and go blow something up, edit it on the system that came with the computer and put it on YouTube.
I saw a show a week ago called 'Life After Film School' where the director of some movie was saying this. The problem is, he says, is: just because you know how to point a camera doesn't necessarily mean you have talent. (His words, not mine.) I think if you are serious about this industry, you have to listen to those who don't like your film as well as those who do. If you are lucky maybe they can tell you why it didn't work for them and you can take something from that.
And there is another problem. Nobody, well, almost nobody, wants to do this. Everyone wants to go from a $300 handicam that you bought last week to shooting Lord Of The Rings. The reality is that for most people this is unrealistic. I have read threads on myspace from kids who are lamenting the fact that there is no wooded area around their home/city whatever, to shoot a horror film. So figure out how to use what you have, for pete's sake. The woods are not the only scary vehicle out there...
This is where you use whatever creativity you have to make something work. There is your motivation. Make a film out of what you have around you. Come up with something no one has ever seen before. Have talent, will travel.
...btw, I was so irritated about the 'I can't do Lord of the Rings without locations' pity party that I tried to figure out if I could do what I was suggessting. I have an idea I need to flesh out, it couldn't possibly be more that an 10 minute short, but it maybe a cool little thriller. It will only work as a short though....and I don't even think in terms of horror/thriller films....
and that's the end of my rant
-- spinner