How to Approach a Potential Mentor

[CDUBB_CW]

Hi All,

As mentioned in my previous thread, I am in the process of starting up a video production company, however it's a daunting challenge that I look forward to. I understand it's a huge step converting from an independent filmmaker doing projects with minimal budget.

I would appreciate some guidance/mentor during my first few months of my start-up from an experienced person that could give me the Do's/Don'ts of the industry. I have been searching for video production companies around my area to find a mentor. I am yet to approach anyone since I am scared I will get people telling me no. I would prefer to get in touch with the owner rather than an employee from the company.

This is where I will need everyone's opinions on how to approach a potential mentor. The most common thing to do would be to suggest a casual meeting at a coffee shop to talk.

Thanks,

 

[Sweetie]

I just saw a video with this exact topic:

His suggestion was along the lines of, don't ask for favors, but ask for their advice. Some will be willing to do it as some pay-it-forward thing, others just aren't interested.

Ask what the potential mentor would prefer. Some would prefer a cafe or a pub/bar, some would prefer being taken to dinner. Others would prefer you coming to them in their office so save their time, perhaps even their home. Some are social, others won't be. Whatever suits them best is my suggestion.

If you're scared of people saying no, think of it like this. The situation that you're in currently, will it get worse if someone says no? If not, what are you afraid of? Most of the time, you're only going to be in the same position you're already in with the chance of that situation improving.

 

[MetalRenard]

So if I've understood correctly, you're looking for someone who can provide feedback on your work and give advice consistently, over an extended period of time?
I think your best bet with anything like this is to make sure you're asking the right questions and to be able to take criticism without feeling like you're being attacked/put down.
If you ask a question similar to "so how do I do this?" you'll get an annoyed answer saying "find out for yourself". If you take the time to study the question, come up with your own opinion on the matter and then ask "So if I do this, will that happen? And is this the best way to do it?", you'll get much better answers AND the person will realise you're invested in your work.

Since it's film making I guess you have to meet in person to collaborate. I'm lucky because in music you don't have to. Hehe.

Good luck!