I'm there...
on thing I notice is prople come in.. post a message then run away before you can respond... Obviously if I haven't been talking to anyone I'm doing other things. I'm not sitting there looking at the chat screen waiting for someone to join... I have better things to do... BUT I do leave it up all day, while at work and can see when people llogin. Before I get a chance to say, they're gone...
DAMN PEOPLE... wait for a little bit