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Philis

For a scene i'm working on:

Girls,

You see a guy you like the look of in the distance. What would turn you off about him?

You get to talk to this guy. What would turn you off about him?
 
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At a distance, turn offs might be, too much arm movement when he talks, being the center of attention, appearing to laugh at his own jokes. All of the alpha male behavior is a turn off. I mean, Lord knows I like to wear the pants.

Up close, poor grooming, lack of confidence, talking about himself, jokes that aren't funny. The usual sort of things.
 
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maralyn said:
At a distance, turn offs might be, too much arm movement when he talks, being the center of attention, appearing to laugh at his own jokes. All of the alpha male behavior is a turn off. I mean, Lord knows I like to wear the pants.

Up close, poor grooming, lack of confidence, talking about himself, jokes that aren't funny. The usual sort of things.
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Genetically women should be attracted to alpha males, whether it's in the younger stages of life when it's physical traits, or maybe a professional career. They want the alpha to give them children. Maybe not for a long term relationship but to secure their child a future mate, and to insure there genetic code will pass on.

So I don't think you mean alpha male behavior, I think you hate narcissists.
 
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maralyn said:
At a distance, turn offs might be, too much arm movement when he talks, being the center of attention, appearing to laugh at his own jokes. All of the alpha male behavior is a turn off. I mean, Lord knows I like to wear the pants.

Up close, poor grooming, lack of confidence, talking about himself, jokes that aren't funny. The usual sort of things.
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Thanks. These are all specific ideas I can work with.
 
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Hard to go into specifics because, surprising as it may sound, women are just as diverse in taste and turn-ons/offs as men are.

Philis said:
You see a guy you like the look of in the distance. What would turn you off about him?
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I suppose one universal might be seeing him mistreating/harassing another person, especially a woman.
 
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wheatgrinder said:
WOW!, two real life girls on IT. <pushes glasses up nose with index finger >
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At the SAME TIME!

Is something NSFW gonna happen?
Hold up... Lemme get my cell phone vidcam turned on...

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maralyn said:
At a distance, turn offs might be, too much arm movement when he talks, being the center of attention, appearing to laugh at his own jokes. All of the alpha male behavior is a turn off. I mean, Lord knows I like to wear the pants.

Up close, poor grooming, lack of confidence, talking about himself, jokes that aren't funny. The usual sort of things.
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It all makes sense now why I never got laid ages 16-35.
 
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